Could you be a foster carer hero?

11 May 2020

Written by: Lambeth Fostering Team

Children and young people - News and announcements

Fostering during lockdown comes with unique challenges but, despite this, Lambeth heroes such as Alex, are welcoming vulnerable children into their homes.

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Could you be a foster carer hero?

Children in Lambeth need people like you

During Fostering Fortnight the council are appealing to the community – now, more than ever we need new people to come forwards and apply to become foster carers. To find out more, register for our online fostering information evening on Thursday 21 May at 7pm.

Case study – local hero, Alex

Alex, a relatively new foster carer, recently welcomed a 13-year-old girl into her home, having become estranged from her parents as a direct impact of COVID-19.

Finding a way to build trust from the beginning of a placement is an important skill to being a good carer. Alex said: “We spent some time talking about the recent series of events which led her to stay with me. We also talked a bit about family life, what it’s like living with a disabled mum – something we found we have in common which helped us bond.

Talking about how she supported her foster child to settle during the first few days, Alex said: “She loved my Caribbean cooking. Although very different to what she was used to, she told me her favourite meals which I made to make her feel welcome.

“I contacted her school to get organised. We quickly established a good home-study routine and I frequently let her know I’m always here to talk and listen.”

Alex emphasises the rewards of caring are as much about personal development as the contribution you make: “For me it’s about being able to have a positive influence in a child’s life. You’re often helping them recover from trauma so it can be tough – but the challenging times are when you reflect and learn about yourself which can be empowering.

“Fostering has given me and my children new opportunities to see things through someone else’s experience, to give something back and appreciate what we have.”

To read more about Alex’s story, and others, visit www.lambeth.gov.uk/foster-stories

Lambeth’s appeal for help

Our Fostering Team are urgently appealing to local people with a spare room and the capacity to care for a vulnerable child to consider stepping forwards during this crisis.

Cllr Edward Davie, Cabinet Member for Children and Young People, said: “We know we have a strong caring community in Lambeth and there are others, just like Alex, who want to make a positive contribution to children in need. If you’ve ever considered fostering, Lambeth needs people like you. Now, more than ever, as increasingly children and their families become affected by coronavirus.”

Merlin Joseph, Lambeth’s Strategic Director of Children Services, said: “Fostering is a varied and demanding role but our dedicated social work team are here to support you every step of the way.

“With Foster Carer Fortnight starting on 11 May we’d also like to take this opportunity to thank all our remarkable carers for their contribution to our community, particularly during this unprecedented time. Each and every one of them has opened up their home and taken on a 24-7 role to better people’s lives – you really are local heroes.”

Who can foster?

To become a Lambeth foster carer, there are only a few basic criteria you must meet. You must:

  • be over 21 years old
  • have a spare bedroom
  • be a full-time resident in the UK or have indefinite leave to remain
  • have good spoken and written English

You don’t have to own your own home. And we welcome couples or individuals from every walk of life.

Find out more about becoming a foster carer

Register for our online fostering information evening on Thursday 21 May at 7pm. Upon registering you’ll be given a link to join the online meeting.

If you’re unable to attend, you can arrange a call back from a member of the team any time at www.lambeth.gov/foster. Here you can also find out about any upcoming events and watch recordings of past live Q&A sessions.